No, I do not talk to dead people and I’d prefer dead people not to talk to me, but when you open the door the messages from the departed just flows in, which can be a bit disconcerting.
Messages from departed loved ones are normally very short and to the point and can be very healing like what happened the other day in Pick and Pay a local grocery store. I was waiting in the queue and saw an employee crying but very discreetly. I went up to here and just gave her a hug and she said her daughter passed two months ago and before I could say anything else the words “Please tell my mum I want to speak to her” came forth. This is how I find my messages come through. I suggested she makes herself a cup of tea and get talking to her daughter.
Often a departed soul does not realised his or her time has on this earth has come to an end and they wander about like lost souls. I am sure they still getup in the morning, go to work etc. Those types of souls are very difficult to contact and they are often upset at being interrupted. Recently I was asked to contact someone and firstly you never know who is going to come through and secondly you have no idea what message is going to come through. So I was not surprised when I received this message “I am very busy, working” What are you working on? I am working on the trees”. This is not what the client wanted to hear but this was the message I received.
You do not know who is going to come through so to ask for a specific person can also cause problems. You want to assist the client, but you cannot just conjure up a departed person, and I rather not open the door too wide.
I have been in contact with Maddie the little girl who disappeared in Spain in 2007and she has been with me since 2009. She cried inconsolably at the time and said quite a few interesting things, which I will never repeat as this was her wish. It is now more than 10 years later since she disappeared and I am pleased to say she is no longer crying. I hear only two words from her which is “proof” and “steeple”. So before I get sued by her parents; this is my opinion and I am allowed to express it….or something like it.
For what it is worth I admire people like the Long Island Medium Theresa Caputo. It takes a lot of courage to do what she does. Then from John Edward another famous medium I learned a valuable lesson as he says when a loved one has passed all you can be for the surviving spouse/partner is to be there for him or her.
When John Edwards does his famous readings in front of all those people he also receives a short message so I am now in the process of updating my code of ethics which you can read here. http://www.psychicmedium.co.za/code-of-ethics.html
I know I have more to say on this topic but that will be another story!